Kennedy and Jude One day when in your Tween-Teen years I will show you these pictures and remind you how much you loved each other.
You love each other. just remember that

Don Juan is in Virginia for a week for year 2 of his residency. Its tough on him, he worked so hard on his dissertation proposal and finally got it passed the first approval process just to get to his residency and to have the professor tell him he is not even close.
he is not giving up because as he has brainwashed into our children's head
"Marklands do not ever give up....EVER"
I keep telling him that in 5 years he will be done and will never have to do it again...it does not seem to be comforting him so I think I will just shut up about it and just let him work through it.
Remember when I used to do a big home project when Don Juan would leave for a while?
Well you will all be pleased to know that my big project this time around will be just plain showering every day.
I have started out bad
today was a fail.....
tomorrow is looking better for me not because I want to shower but because I actually will have to go into public and no one should have to see me like this.
for those of you who saw me today I formally apologize.
Really I am sorry you had to see me like this but it just had to be done....I had to sit in my p.j.s all day
maybe it was in honor of my friend delivering her baby at home today? Just hearing about her doing that this morning made me so tired I couldn't even get dressed.
Is that a real thing? you know how some husbands gain weight with their wife when they are pregnant? maybe I get tired with my friends?
That totally makes sense because my friend today is the fourth one of my friends in the last two months to have a baby, and we all live within a 1 mile radius of each other...
That is why I have been lazy lately....I am feeling their exhaustion...
I feel your pain ladies....though not quite as extensive as you feel it I'm sure( OK, not at all as you feel it.) but thank you anyway for letting your hard work at bringing life into this world be my excuse for staying in yoga pants and sweatshirts all day.
for this I will be eternally grateful.
I will also be eternally grateful if you guys let me babysit your little nuggets so you can just take a nap.